Homily – 4th Sunday of Lent

My friends, we are at the mid-way point in our Lenten journey, and with this Sunday’s readings, we are called in all three selections to, “come back to our loving God, especially if we have “been away,” or to once again, refocus our thoughts and actions on more closely following the path laid out for us by our brother Jesus.

   Our God, who is Creator and Savior/Revealer makes it easy for us by always being one who “chases after us all the days of our lives,” as it is so beautifully phrased in the 23rd Psalm of the Scripture version, The Message.  Our God is forever giving us a second chance to return, trying once again to be our best, because after all, that is what our brother Jesus calls us to, not only during Lent, but throughout each day of our lives. 

   Let’s look a bit deeper at today’s readings to see how this is actually true.   The 1st reading from Joshua is simply telling the Israelite people that God no longer “disapproves” of them for their actions—they are free now from their trials in Egypt, and God, who has always “walked with them,” awaiting the day when they would return, and strive again to be who God called them to be.  And even though, their actions called for punishment, our God showed them only mercy. 

   In the 2nd reading from 2 Corinthians, Paul says that we have been “reconciled” to God through Jesus.  This statement is reflective with the “old theology” we all learned about, “Jesus dying for our sins,” which basically is quite a “black and white,” surface view of what Paul is actually saying.  A better way to look at his words, many would say, is that our God simply wants us, “to strive to be our best,” as that will better serve ourselves and others. 

   And then we have the beautiful story of the Prodigal in Luke’s gospel selection.  This story completes the theme expressed in all three readings today, of a God who will always give us another chance—of one who wants us close, and will always be on the journey towards us even before we have decided to “come home.”

   In my mind, the story of the Prodigal is one of the most beautiful that our brother Jesus has gifted us with.  Let’s take a closer look.  The story we just read says, “the father caught sight of his son and was deeply moved.  The father went out to meet him—hugged and kissed him…”  We must not miss the emotion here as expressed by this father. 

   At the beginning of this story, we read, “this one welcomes sinners and eats with them.”  Unfortunately, this reminds me of the response that our parish received from our local bishop to several invitations we offered him, to meet, perhaps to share a meal, to talk, only to be told, we needed to “recant” before that could happen.  I believe that his actions do not reflect those of our brother Jesus, who Scripture clearly tells us, was willing to meet with anyone.

   This beautiful story of the Prodigal is beautiful and true to our own call to a life of love in many ways.  On the surface of the story, we witness the excessive wastefulness of the son, of the gift of his inheritance, showing disrespect for his father’s love for him.  And we see as well the “prodigal,” wastefulness of the father pouring out, “over-the-top” love for his errant child when he finally comes home, willing to try again. 

   Love, real love can be a tough thing, to continue to give, overtime, especially when it is not reciprocated.  Any of you who have parented children, guided students, or counseled friends know this to be true.  On a purely human level, we can at times look rather judgmentally at friends and relatives who may have hurt us along the way, who we have tried to love, think the best of, and rather cynically in the end say, “you made your bed, now lie in it!” I will change when you do, or something similar.

   We see this reaction today in the older son, who has been faithful, doing all that was asked of him.  He is bewildered, blind-sided we might even say, by his father’s “wasteful” love poured out on his seemingly “worthless” brother. “You certainly can’t mean this,” we can almost hear him say—and he is down-right angry! 

   The story then drags us back to the loving parent who simply can’t respond in any other way…he “pleads” with his faithful son, who he likewise loves dearly, “can’t you see, he was lost, and now is found, we had to celebrate that!” And again, there may be some of you who have been in this situation.

   The conclusion of this story though often leaves many struggling to accept this over-the-top reaction from the father.  But we must go the next step and realize that the mercy shown will call the wayward child to repent and strive again toward becoming their best self—toward showing their gratitude by loving in a likewise fashion. 

   Earlier I stated that this gospel story is true of our own lives as well.  The life of Jesus, our brother constantly calls us over and above our human tendencies to look cynically on life with an “eye for an eye” mentality, and instead, love wastefully.  Our response may not be, “over-the-top,” but in the face of much that just seems, “not right” in our present day, we must continue to be our best—when models of this kind of love and mercy in Church and State don’t seem to be there, we must do our part. If not us, who?

   So, in conclusion my friends, a few final thoughts that may be meaningful this next week of our Lenten journey—which really at day’s end is all about, being better “lovers” of all created life. 

  • Do I grow more like Jesus every day? (concentrating on his message should be our main focus).
  • Sister Joan Chittister on prayer: “Prayer is meant to bring us to see the world as God [does] – it is meant to expand our vision, not trap us in a world that is only ourselves.
  • Our decisions in our day-to-day life should bring us peace; otherwise, they are probably not of God or what may be the best action for us to take, (my personal experience).
  • Does my speech reflect a deep caring and respect for myself and others in the ways that God has first loved me?
  • Do I live with a sense of justice that is due each person, coupled with an attempt to understand what each walks with in life, rather than the tendency to judge what I see on the surface?
  • Do I make an attempt to share my wealth with those less fortunate, through tithing, contributions to the local food shelf, community-sponsored meals, and shelters for the homeless?

   We humans lose sight of our purpose at times—on our trip, we saw many German and French cathedrals—Catholic and Lutheran, each striving to be bigger, on a higher hill, to in effect say, “we are the best!”  We Catholics must never forget that we are also Christians—followers of Jesus of Nazareth, remembering that our God is always, always calling us to be our best and if we grow a bit closer to that image during this Lent, then I would say, we did good.  Finally, I like to think about our God as “always up for a party” to celebrate our efforts! Amen? Amen!