My friends, with this Sunday we begin the four short weeks this year of Advent before Christmas wherein the Christian Church-United is invited to take some quiet moments among the busy days of preparation for what, we might say, in the very best sense, is our annual celebration of love.

Advent is, and can be a quiet celebration of impending joy which builds during this holy season, and as always, for us Catholic Christians, and our sister and brother Christians of different denominations, the rituals serve to help us build the momentum which will be heightened on the 3rd Sunday of Advent, “Gaudete,” which quite simply means, “Joy Sunday,” and we signify this mounting joy by changing from the royal blue of the other Sundays to the white or pink in the candles and other drapings.

Last week I mentioned the unfortunate falling-back within our hierarchical church to the pre-Vatican II use of purple in the candles, vestments, and drapings in our liturgical spaces. I say, “unfortunate” because the “purple” seems to align this season of joy with the season of Lent which is more about looking within ourselves in a deeper way than usual for the times we have failed in being the people our brother Jesus calls us to be, and then asking heart-felt forgiveness for those failings.

Now you might be thinking, what difference does it make, and I can’t stress enough the big difference it does make! With the 28-year pontificate of John Paul II, our beloved Church experienced a relentless turning-back from the “fresh air, and opening doors and windows” with the new ideas of John XXIII, to a time when once again we were encouraged to “beat our breasts—mea culpa, mea culpa,” for not measuring up

So then, the remembrance of our God sending Jesus to be one-with-us at Christmas time is “dumbed-down” to be like so many other things pre-Vatican II, about “sin,” and “sinfulness,” instead about “love.”
Thus, the royal blue is so-very-important as it stands for our faith-filled sister and mother, Mary of Nazareth, and the blessed fruit of her womb. Later during this holy season, we will read about this same Mary going in “haste and joy” to visit her aunt Elizabeth, so that she can proclaim in joy and confirm for her niece her recognition of the miracle that Mary is carrying. This folks, is about “joy” not “sin,” and is to be celebrated for the wonder that it is, that our God would love us this much, to send One to show us the way. It is truly sad, in my mind, that our Church hierarchy chooses to omit this beautiful ritual of impending joy, replacing it with the smallness that we humans can be at times.

But let’s look to the Scriptures as we always do to find our true path. The prophet Jeremiah is a true guide in letting us know that, “Our God is our justice”—our brother Jesus is coming to help us see that our “love and care” must look more and more like the “love and care” that our God will show through our brother Jesus in his life among us—proclaiming that all are welcome, and that no one is excluded.

Many of us have just completed quality time with family and friends through the celebration of Thanksgiving. For some it was about traveling many miles to be with loved ones, to share the “old, timeless stories,” the fun memories…for some this year marked the 1st, or yet another year without a special loved one, and that is always hard, thus, we should listen to the stories of those missing others.
And too, for some, this holiday time is about saying, “the long good-bye,” and for those who are dealing with dementia in a loved one’s life, you know what I am speaking about.

Our Scriptures for today do call us though, as throughout our Christian lives, to balance. Paul’s first letter to the Thessalonians today calls us to the concerted, day-in, day-out practice of love needed as we continue to try always to be closer and closer to the memory of Jesus of Nazareth. Paul says, “may [you] grow and overflow with love, and may [you have] strong hearts, [and additionally, may your hearts be] blameless and holy.”

In Luke’s gospel, we hear about the “balance” that we should strive for in Jesus’ words to, “be on our guard” [against excess] because each of us knows how easy it is to get caught up in the excesses of this world.

So, the caution to “balance” the mounting joy during this season,” with times of “quiet reflecting” on truly why, we Christians celebrate the season of Christmas in the first place, is sound. Too much of anything is usually not good—we all know that, but let’s not, as is said, “throw the baby out with the bath water.” Let us allow ourselves, during this season of impending and mounting joy, feel that joy, feel the mounting sense of love that our God has for each of us, and attempt more and more, to love likewise, those who make up our lives. Amen? Amen!